Dated: November 3rd, 2002
Dear Friends,
Wish U all a Very Happy Diwali & a Safe, Prosperous New Year !!
It is that time of the month when I send U the regularly irregular updates on the things happening all around. There is one topic which has been the most talked about for years and yet is something which is the least understood till date. It's some sort of a Mystery........and I am going to attempt and unravell the mystery !!
Actually, the last couple of weeks of my life have been quite hectic, shuttling between three of my Colleagues marriages (with another 2 scheduled to tie the knot very soon next month) and an Emergency at Office (lasting over 3 days) which threatened to shut down the Gas supply to Bombay City. But as they say, " All's Well that End's Well " !!
So here I am, trying something different............ talking on the phenomena called "LOVE" !!
I am sure, at one point of time or the other, we must have all thought about Life's best Spice called " Love " and the other allied concepts such as Pure Love, Love at First sight.... the Ideal Lover ......etc.
How exactly do you define Love or...... Can you actually define Love ??!!!
If we try and analyze this phenomena called Love, you can say "Physical beauty / attraction" is one of the mostly used criteria s. How does "Physical beauty" actually come into the picture ?
Personally speaking, a Girls Eyes are one of the most enchanting, mysterious and sparkling guides to attraction. The eyes being one of the most expressive part, are the first ones to initiate the process of Love. There are different ways in which the eyes flirt...............
a. Watching from the corner of the eyes
b. A continuous stare at the opposite person.........
c. Trying to look away from the person when U actually want to watch him all the while.............or just simply...........
d. A harried or nervous look, searching to get another glance of his/her beloved !!
The look says it all and the feelings are quite obvious the moment you look into her eyes !!
Couple this Language of the Eyes with a sweet Smile and there U have a deadly combination ................... eagerly poised to kill whoever sets his eyes on her............ !!
Love also takes in a lot of other characteristics which could be classified as given below:
1. A great sense of Humour....... someone who can make U laugh !!
2. A sense of Understanding......... someone with whom U can share Ur feelings
3. Or simply put............ a person with whom U can talk.............about anything ranging from what happened at Office to the Yearly Indian Fiscal Budget to the Anti-terrorist Campaign of America !!
After all, once the Physical Attraction ends........ somewhere down the line.......... it's only the "Understanding - Mutual Attraction" which can keep the relationship going !!
Now, to an even more interesting topic...............:
How do U actually come to know that U are in LOVE ??!! Let's see if I can give U some important pointers..........
1. Whenever Checking e-mails, if U eagerly wait to see his/ her name in the Inbox and just can't wait to read the message it contains................... U know, U are in Love !!
2. Whenever there is a phone Call, if U expect it to be him/ her on the other side of the line, ................... U know, U are in Love !!
3. When Ur eyes keep searching for that someone Special in a crowd................... U know, U are in Love !!
4. When U want to spend the maximum of your free time with that someone special................... U know, U are in Love !!
5. When time flies off at a very fast pace, when U are in his/ her Company and U hope that time should stand still for some more time................... U know, U are in Love !!
6. When U talk to him/ her and Ur heart just skips a beat, ................... U know, U are in Love !!
Love is one feeling which makes a seemingly ordinary person feel " Very Important & Special" !! and is something which I believe everyone needs to Experience !!
Think that should be enough for this great & Happy occasion of Diwali !! Please do send in Ur comments on the same cos I am sure U all will have a lot to say about one of my favourite topics..........
Eagerly waiting to see U all and receive your responses cos it's really frustrating when U write to people (read: Friends) and they read the mails but never respond !!
With lots of love,
Sandeep Narayan
Dear Friends,
Wish U all a Very Happy Diwali & a Safe, Prosperous New Year !!
It is that time of the month when I send U the regularly irregular updates on the things happening all around. There is one topic which has been the most talked about for years and yet is something which is the least understood till date. It's some sort of a Mystery........and I am going to attempt and unravell the mystery !!
Actually, the last couple of weeks of my life have been quite hectic, shuttling between three of my Colleagues marriages (with another 2 scheduled to tie the knot very soon next month) and an Emergency at Office (lasting over 3 days) which threatened to shut down the Gas supply to Bombay City. But as they say, " All's Well that End's Well " !!
So here I am, trying something different............ talking on the phenomena called "LOVE" !!
I am sure, at one point of time or the other, we must have all thought about Life's best Spice called " Love " and the other allied concepts such as Pure Love, Love at First sight.... the Ideal Lover ......etc.
How exactly do you define Love or...... Can you actually define Love ??!!!
If we try and analyze this phenomena called Love, you can say "Physical beauty / attraction" is one of the mostly used criteria s. How does "Physical beauty" actually come into the picture ?
Personally speaking, a Girls Eyes are one of the most enchanting, mysterious and sparkling guides to attraction. The eyes being one of the most expressive part, are the first ones to initiate the process of Love. There are different ways in which the eyes flirt...............
a. Watching from the corner of the eyes
b. A continuous stare at the opposite person.........
c. Trying to look away from the person when U actually want to watch him all the while.............or just simply...........
d. A harried or nervous look, searching to get another glance of his/her beloved !!
The look says it all and the feelings are quite obvious the moment you look into her eyes !!
Couple this Language of the Eyes with a sweet Smile and there U have a deadly combination ................... eagerly poised to kill whoever sets his eyes on her............ !!
Love also takes in a lot of other characteristics which could be classified as given below:
1. A great sense of Humour....... someone who can make U laugh !!
2. A sense of Understanding......... someone with whom U can share Ur feelings
3. Or simply put............ a person with whom U can talk.............about anything ranging from what happened at Office to the Yearly Indian Fiscal Budget to the Anti-terrorist Campaign of America !!
After all, once the Physical Attraction ends........ somewhere down the line.......... it's only the "Understanding - Mutual Attraction" which can keep the relationship going !!
Now, to an even more interesting topic...............:
How do U actually come to know that U are in LOVE ??!! Let's see if I can give U some important pointers..........
1. Whenever Checking e-mails, if U eagerly wait to see his/ her name in the Inbox and just can't wait to read the message it contains................... U know, U are in Love !!
2. Whenever there is a phone Call, if U expect it to be him/ her on the other side of the line, ................... U know, U are in Love !!
3. When Ur eyes keep searching for that someone Special in a crowd................... U know, U are in Love !!
4. When U want to spend the maximum of your free time with that someone special................... U know, U are in Love !!
5. When time flies off at a very fast pace, when U are in his/ her Company and U hope that time should stand still for some more time................... U know, U are in Love !!
6. When U talk to him/ her and Ur heart just skips a beat, ................... U know, U are in Love !!
Love is one feeling which makes a seemingly ordinary person feel " Very Important & Special" !! and is something which I believe everyone needs to Experience !!
Think that should be enough for this great & Happy occasion of Diwali !! Please do send in Ur comments on the same cos I am sure U all will have a lot to say about one of my favourite topics..........
Eagerly waiting to see U all and receive your responses cos it's really frustrating when U write to people (read: Friends) and they read the mails but never respond !!
With lots of love,
Sandeep Narayan
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